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Showing posts with label Traditions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Traditions. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Our Advent Traditions

I love traditions.  Sometimes so much that I overwhelm my husband.  The Advent season always brings with it several traditions.

Our reason for starting these now with such an early family is not so that our kids understand what we are doing each day.  I am ok with the fact that they don't comprehend most of it.  They will understand one day, and we will already have the practice of doing it each year.

Advent wreath:
In years past, we lit this every night.  We would add a new candle each Sunday, and light it during our Advent reading. This year, we decided to just light it on Sundays.  Each Sunday, we would talk about what that weeks candle symbolized.

Advent Devotional:
This year we used Ann Voskamp's devotional.  I read the entire thing each morning, but Will just read the corresponding verse to us at dinner.  There were ornaments to go with them, but we didn't do those.

Jesse Tree:
This year we made a Jesus Storybook Bible Jesse tree.  Each ornament corresponded with a story we read each morning of Advent.  Then, we would color the picture and hang it on the tree.  At least that was the plan, but I didn't get much cooperation this year.

Advent Calendar:
I made a list of fun stuff for us to do all month.  I wrote them out on a large chalkboard in the playroom. We have a wooden Advent calendar with doors that I will eventually use, but for now, Hudson will just destroy it.

Activities included salt dough ornaments, hot chocolate, indoor snow, Christmas lights, St. Nicholas Day, gingerbread cookies, gingerbread houses, waffle cone trees, a trip to the Galleria, Christmas stories at the library, etc..

My favorite activity from this was our St. Nicholas Day treats.  We spent the day learning about the true St. Nicholas and then we made treats for our friends.  These treats symbolized what St. Nicholas left for children in poverty years ago.  We left oranges, gold chocolate coins, nuts, Christmas tree ornament and candy canes.  We also left a poem explaining each treat as well as a print out of the story of St. Nicholas.

Salt dough ornaments

Gingerbread men with Maw Maw.


Sugar cookies. Notice he has a gun holstered in his apron.

Waffle cone trees at Dawson's house.

Lunch at the Galleria. 

Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer at the library.
Gingerbread house.




Advent book:

We use a children's book titled, "The ADVENTure of Christmas." Most of our crafts and stories come from this book.  I have learned so much about our traditions and where they originated from reading this.

Giving:

We are taking the giving slowly.  We desire that our family give more than we receive.  It is counter cultural for sure, and if I am honest, we totally get more than we give.

We decided to support a child from Compassion International.  We will be giving towards this all year, but we started it during the Advent season in the spirit of giving.

Hudson did an Operation Christmas child box. Next year, Clara will do one too.

We chose something from Samaritan's Purse to give towards.  This year we helped supported a cleft palate surgery in honor of Will's brother.

There are several more ideas that we have done in the past, but for one reason or another, we did not do it this year.  Last year, Will served dinner in a prison, and we supplied a goat to a family in Africa.  I would like to do something like that again next year.

Letter from Paulo in Brazil.


Gifts:

We do the four gift rule: Something you want, need, wear, and read.  I also started the tradition of each child giving the other child something preferably homemade.

Hudson making crayon molds for Clara.

Christmas Eve:

We are busy during Christmas.  So, we try to make Christmas Eve special for just us.  We exchange gifts on Christmas morning and also do a Happy Birthday Jesus Party!  We make cupcakes and ice cream.  This year, we did not make ice cream because we are learning Hudsons's system can not handle much sugar.


Monday, December 5, 2011

Advent

I love the Advent season! If you have read my blog long enough, you know that I love traditions. The Advent season is a wonderful time to start traditions in your family. The things you do now could continue for generations to come! How exciting.

Most of our Christmas traditions are intertwined with our dinner meal.



We light our advent candle at night and read from this devotional.



I must say that reading at dinner is hard. It is hard with just one baby. I don't really soak in what we read most nights. As our children grow, our conversations will deepen. It has to smart small. The most important thing is that we are making it a priority. Hudson sees us reading and praying and that is important! We are learning.

Our Jesse Tree is beside the advent candle. There are tons of devotionals to do with this tree, and we may start that as our children grow. For now, it is simply something we talk about during dinner. It is more for children, but we wanted to do it now simply because we know if we don't start it we never will, ya know?

In the mornings, Hudson and I usually open a door from our Advent calendar. We purchased this one at Target, and I hope it lasts for years. Hudson loves opening the doors.



Inside, is a little piece of paper with something to read and something to do. I don't stress myself out if we can't do it. I wrote these when Hudson was tiny, and I will change them to fit with the needs of our family.



I also found this wooden manger scene at a thrift store. It lives on our coffee table during December, and it mainly for Hudson to play with and slowly learn from it.



Above all, we simply want Christmas to be about Christ. Yeah, we have some Santa's on our tree, and we will "pretend" Santa is coming. I say "pretend" because Hudson will know that Santa is not real. I know some parents gasp at that, but this is a decision we made. We don't want to deceive him, and in any way hinder him understanding that Jesus is real. That being said, I don't criticize parents that do tell their children Santa is real. I think there is so much criticism that comes with parenting, and it is pointless!

I am always open to new ideas and twists on the traditions we have. I would love to hear some of yours too!

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Operation Christmas Child

We really want to cultivate a spirit of giving in our children. One way we are attempting to do this is through Operation Christmas Child. This year, Hudson packed a box for a 2 year old boy. As our family grows, we want each child to pack a box for the same age child as them.

We hit the one spot at target for most of our loot. We found a yo yo, ball, airplane, truck, teddy bear, book, and a tiger. We also sent some of our individually wrapped hard candy left over from Halloween. We probably spent less than 10 bucks.





We included a letter and pictures of Hudson. We told the little boy that we hoped our gift would point him to the greatest gift...the love of Jesus.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Thankful Tree

We were so excited to start our thankful tree! Each evening, we are taking turns hanging our thankful leaves on the tree.









Not sure how he got here: